How to Romance a Woman: Top 10 Tips for a Great Sex

It is not a new thing that the doorway to a great sex is romance. Neverheless, there are a lot of men who have not got it right so as to make their women enjoy sex to the full. This therefore necessitates the need to know how to romance a woman.

Above all things, women love to be touched affectionately. Women are emotional creatures; They thrive on feelings. If you want your partner to enjoy sex, you must know how to cares her very well. She must be in the mood before her body can respond inadequately to sexual stimulus.

If you are the kind of man who knows how to romance a woman, you are well on the way to make your woman become a sexually insatiable person who will love to be with you more often than you expect. Her sexual appetite will double up quickly. Good romance is memorable to most women. You must understand the act.

Now, here are simple tips on how to romance a woman.
1. Take a shower together in the bathroom. Spray some sweet-smelling perfume on the bed while blue light is on.

2. Massage her back from the shoulders down to the buttocks. Then, while lying on her back, massage her thighs with gentle strokes. You may add some oil or jelly to your palms.

3. Give her a gentle fondling on her breasts. Gently rub the nipples with your fingers until they become hard, showing that she is being sexually excited.

4. Then, with the tip of your tongue, stroke the nipples. If you have some peppermint at home, take it. It will make your mouth cool for sucking the breasts. Do that for a while.

5. While fondling her breasts, kiss her affectionately too. It must be a deep kiss. Sometimes, stick out your tongue to touch hers.

6. Caress other sensitive parts of her body, of which you should have known before the romance. For instance, some women respond to touch on their thighs, lobes of the ears, the soles of the feet, and so on. Simply ask her. You could also stimulate her in those areas with the tip of the tongue.

7. Do not keep dumb! Talk to her about your feelings. Say sex-saturated words to strengthen her mood for sex. Generally, women are moved by what they hear.
Say words like:

I. Having sex with you gives me joy.
Ii. Sweetheart, I feel great when I'm inside you.
Iii. Oh, how your body is full of pleasure!
Iv. Your boobs are sweet!
V. No other woman can ever do it like you do!

8. To enable her have a great orgasm, rub her clitoral area slightly. Meanwhile, go on with kissing. Stroke the clitoris. When you see sign that she is getting near orgasm, stop it.

9. After few minutes, resume the clitoral stimulation. Repeat such process for like three to five times. By so doing, she will have become extremely stimulated.

10. At this point, she is fully ready for a pleasurable sex episode. Quickly take her on top. Depending on her taste, that's probably the best position at that point in time. She is likely going to scream in ecstasy.

That's how to romance a woman and get her asking for more. It may take time. Every great sex episode usually takes time. So, patience is required if you want to please your woman.

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Valentine February 8, 2019 0 Comments

To Do List For Your Romantic Relationship

It is very difficult to keep the relationships exciting sometimes. Well, actually, a lot of times. It gets boring, it gets old, your partner seems to be a little more distant, and your sex life looks dull. I, myself have encountered those problems as well. Along with billions of other people out there in or out of relationships, here I present some tips for you to keep up with that romantic relationship without getting into the period of lassitude.

Communicate with your partner:

Probably most of you agree with me with this. If you do not communicate, sometimes you’ll find out your mistakes much later, or a lot of times, you never get to find out what it is that you did wrong until after your relationship has ended and your partner flew away for some other Person that would satisfy him / her better than you. Communicating is critical in keeping your romantic relationship.

Romantic Talk: Talk Sexy:

We all know that girls easily fall for romantic words murmured close to the ear, her lover’s breath gently skim along her ear lobe, whispering quietly …… It is not only women that gets excited and feel loved by the romantic talk. Also men gets aroused by their partner’s sexy words, if she knows exactly how to handle the talk.

Biggest mistakes you make:

Most of the times, one does not know what he / she is good at or even bad at in bed. It is not like you can talk to other people openly about it all the time, or let other people examine you and criticizeize or complement you. Only your partner knows, and if your partner does not tell you what it is that you are doing wrong? What would be some of the common mistakes that people tend to make and do not realize that would be repulsive in bed?

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Valentine August 30, 2018 8 Comments

Why Do Men Stop Being Romantic – And How to Get Him to Be Romantic Again

Is not it wonderful when a man is being romantic? He’s so creative and full of surprises and it just feels so good to be loved and romanced by a man what you care about and love a lot too.

Unfortunately, when you’ve been in a stable relationship for some time, you may notice your man becoming less and less romantic. Why does this happen? What is really happening? You know he loves you, but then why is not he doing the things that make your heart flutter and sing anymore?

Some may think that the reason why men stop being romantic, is simply because he has run out of romantic ideas. While this is a valid and logical explanation, deep down, you know that if he really wanted to plan a romantic date for you, he would find a way. So while being ‘out of ideas’ is a justifiable reason, it does not help you get to the root of the matter. And even if you buy him a book filled with romantic date ideas, if he’s not inspired, he’s not going to use them, and you’ll feel even more frustrated.

So the largest reason why men stop being romantic is that he has grown extremely comfortable in your relationship, and he’s simply taking the easy way out because he can. He knows you are not going to leave him just because he’s not being romantic. So instead of going through all the trouble of planning and coming up with some romantic idea, he is just going to sit on the couch and watch some TV instead.

You’ve played a part in this because you’ve let your man become lazy. You probably would not do it on purpose. In fact, you probably did all you could to make his life easier, just to show him how much you love him. Unfortunately, by taking such good care of him, you took his job of being your romantic hero and prince away from him.

So, the only way to get his romantic juices flowing again is to give him some incentives to do so. You do this by doing less for him and making him feel good when he does small things for you. Instead of doing things for him in return, just tell him how much you appreciate what he’s done. Men love being appreciated and while it will take some time, his romantic side will come back. Whatever you do, please do not nag him.

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Valentine September 15, 2017 0 Comments

How to Tell Your Husband You Need More Romance in Your Marriage – From a Man’s Point of View

For some of the women reading this, you are about embark on a no holds bared, fact finding mission into your husband’s mind. Let’s get started with a few myths exposed and facts revealed.

Fact . . . All those ‘share-your-agony / accomplish nothing’ websites where wives-in-misery commiserate by giving essentially worthless advice about what did not work for them will not help you encourage your husband to be more romantic.

Myth . . . Your husband does not love you because he is not romantic. This false statement is mostly found in the ‘share-your-agony’ websites.

Fact . . . Your husband is not more romantic for one or a combination of four main reasons:

  • Not comfortable with the emotional element of romance
  • Too much stress or not enough (perceived) time.
  • Not focused, not organized or may forget important dates.
  • Not aware of just how important romance is to you.

Myth . . . By showering your husband with romance, he will get the idea, seek out his hidden inner romantic child and create the romantic oasis you so desire and deserve.
Fact . . . Your husband will become more romantic and your marriage more passionate for one of two primary reasons: (Or a combination of both.)

  • He wants please you, make you happy and improve the marriage because he is basically a really good guy.
  • Because it is in his best interest and he derives some benefit from changing the dynamics of the marriage.

There are three components to encouraging your husband to be more romantic. Do all three and you are almost guarantied of a romance filled marriage . Like a tricycle, having only two wheels on the ground (two components of the romance formula), you are not going to get very far. And if you do get anywhere, it is going to be a real struggle.

Step One – The Goal – Without condemning, complaining or criticizing, tell your husband why it is important to you that your marriage has a greater element of romance. Explain that romance is like a key that opens a woman’s heart and fulfills her need for emotional intelligence. Describe what romance looks, feels, sounds and smells like. Give your husband a target, a challenge. Men want to pursue and enjoy reaching a goal.

Step Two – The Reward – Share with your husband why it is in his interest to step up the level of romance in the marriage. The truth is that while you are thinking of romance as emotional intelligence, your husband is thinking of sensual pleasure. One viewpoint is not better than the other, but they are two sides to the same coin. Tell him how romance increases the emotional connection that you feel and that leads to greater confidence in the relationship – in him. You want to change – increase the amount of romance – the marriage because it will better fulfill a need that you have (and should have fulfilled). It is no different for your husband. He will change the relationship – increase the amount of romance – when it fulfills a need that he may have.

Step Three – No plan, no action! Men are, by their very nature tool users. Some use computers, others use power saws, the rest something in between. While there is no scientific research to prove this, the reason men are tool users is because their brains leak. Ask your husband to bring home three things from the store and you are likely to get just about anything along the items requested. Same goes for the romance, your husband is going to need a little assistance to keep him on track for the first few months. There are online marriage resources designed to give your husband romantic ideas, tips and suggestions. The full featured sites even provide a personalized reminder service so that he never forgives another anniversary, birthday or special occasion. If you do a Google or Bing search for “Romantic Outsourcing” you can see what is available to your husband.

The challenging part to making a long overdue improvement in your relationship is getting the subject out and in to the open. Below is a letter format that you can use to get your husband’s attention. Feel free to copy, cut, edit and paste for your own personal use.

Dear (My Romantically-Resistant Husband)
I’m writing this letter to you because I feel that our marriage could use a positive change.

I know that romance may not be your highest priority right now. But for me, it represents more than just flowers or a nice card. It is, for me, a way to feel emotionally connected to the man I love. For women, romance is like a key that opens a door to greater intelligence, more confidence in the relationship and, yes, more desire for sensual passion.

To me, romance can be gestures of affection that remind me that I am special in your eyes and in your heart. Its not about getaways to secluded islands you see in movies. But rather, a personal message, a thought, a break from the routine, or flowers every once in a while. Please do not let this rule out the romantic getaway, if that is what you had in mind 🙂 To explain it in another way, women have an ’emotional bank account’ that needs regular little deposits. And you will be amazed how much interest builds up for you. Romance can lead to many things; A match that starts a passionate flame, the glue that unites a relationship, a door to greater sensual pleasure, the building blocks of a stronger marriage.

Without a doubt, men and women are different in their needs and comfort zones. I recognize that and realize you may occasionally want a few ideas and reminders to get the romantic juices flowing. There are marriage / romance building websites for men, operated by men that may be useful to you. ________ is one website that is free to use or you can do a search for “Romantic Outsourcing” .

I want you to know that I love you dearly and want our marriage to grow stronger every day. Romance is important to me. Share with me what is important to you.

Your Loving Wife,


One last suggestion, having only a verbal conversation is likely not to lead to repeating change. Remember your husband’s mind leaks. If he was not fully invested in the change you need, want or deserve – romance will be pushed down on the list of day to day demands. The reason men respond well to a written letter is because it allows them to return to their cave, a psychological safe place, and have time to digest the issue. Your husband will take action sooner than you think. And if he does not, take control of the situation, sign him up and enter the important anniversaries and dates.

I have found that most men tend to initially very heavily on a ‘Romantic Outsourcing’ website to encourage them to take action and, yes, overcome any initial hesitation. Remember, many men are, in the beginning, not comfortable expressing romance. Because, in the end, it is a display of emotional openness. It takes time to get good at being romantic and recognizing collective emotional cues. The good news is that many of the most ‘romantically-resistant’ men go on to be regular contributors of romantic ideas – helping other husbands like yours improve their marriage. For a sports analogy, ‘Even the best athlete was, in the very beginning, way back when, a rookie player who walked out onto the field for the first time.’

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Valentine July 18, 2017 0 Comments