So Your Man Doesn’t Respect You? Here is How to Instantly Make Him Respect You

Good relationships are built on mutual respect, and respect is not something anyone automatically gets. You can’t force a man to respect you. His respect is something you earn, just like love is earned.

A man will never truly love a woman he doesn’t respect. Now, this doesn’t mean he won’t date her, or even sleep with her, but is he going to fall deeply and madly in love with her? No way! Love and respect go hand in hand, and making a man respect you is one of the challenges you’ll face in gaining his love and trust.

Love yourself. It may be cliché, but it’s true. No man can love and respect you, if you don’t even have those feelings for yourself. You must have pride in yourself, a sense of real self-worth, and an appreciation for your loveable and respectable qualities. If you don’t, he won’t either.

Know who you are. Be a whole person, with thoughts and feelings, memories and a future, plans and activities all of your own. It’s fine to compromise in a relationship. In fact, it’s necessary at times in order for a relationship to succeed, but losing yourself in someone else is not healthy or respectable. You have to be an individual in order to earn respect.

Have your own thoughts. Agreeing with someone is one thing, provided you actually do agree with them. However, pretending to agree just because you think it will make them happy is another thing altogether. It’s ok to disagree on topics, and to have your own opinions and thoughts. Failing to ever show you’re a rational, thinking person is a sure way to lose a man’s respect.

Don’t suppress yourself. Be who you are, and don’t try to pretend to be something you think a man will find more attractive. Pretending might work for awhile, when you’re first getting to know someone new, especially if you’re a pretty good actress, but eventually, the real you is bound to show through. A man can’t respect you if he doesn’t really know you, and upon finding out you’ve been pretending all along he has no choice but to lose respect for you.

Don’t go overboard. You’ll want to be attractive and appealing to a man, but you shouldn’t take it too far. He may tell you some of the things he finds attractive, like well manicured nails, women in sundresses, or intellectual looking women, with glasses and tightly tied hair. That doesn’t mean you should try to conform to all of those styles. He obviously finds you attractive, or he wouldn’t be dating you.

Don’t think you have to be perfect. Being perfect isn’t attractive or respectable in a real woman, because it’s an unachievable and fake state of being. A man may find the perfect standards of beauty depicted in the swim suit edition of magazines attractive or sexually appealing from a visual standpoint, but no real woman is perfect. Be real. Take pride in your appearance, as that shows you have respect in yourself, but don’t try to achieve some silly standard of perfection.

Enjoy your life. Being happy, even when you aren’t with him, promotes real happiness for you. Build a life for yourself, with your own plans, dreams, friends, and interests. Happiness in your own life makes you a whole person, with a more attractive overall personality and appearance. A happy, secure, and well-rounded woman is respectable. One who can’t be happy unless she’s with a man isn’t.

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Valentine February 7, 2019 0 Comments

Lover Tarot Readings and the Two of Swords

In tarot reading, The Two of Swords is associated with denial. It often indicates an impasse or stalemate.Its traditional imagery depicts a women holding up two swords while blindfolded. In this context, the blindfold is self-imposed. She has clearly chosen to remain oblivious to the environment that surrounds her.

The Two of Swords is also associated to indecision or an ability to make an important choice. It is clear that she is avoiding an important truth. She has created a false sense of reality and is choosing to live in a state of oblivion. This reality offers her a moment of peace. However, this does not negate the existence of the necessity of choosing a new path. At some point, the weight of the Swords will become too much to bear and she will be forced to face the reality of the situation.


In terms of relationships, the Two of swords appearing in a love tarot reading often reveals the barriers you have placed between you and your partner. This is the nature of the stalemate. You have emotionally shut down or the relationship has become resistant to compromise. In this case, there are often issues of inner conflict or confusion about the relationship.

The Two of Swords also indicates that the issues your relationship is struggling with will not be found through outside influences. It instead urges you to once again go inward. It is time to face your inner conflicts. To move beyond your current stalemate, balance must be restored. This is often achieved by exploring the past experiences that are influencing your current situation.


In love tarot, the Two of Swords absolutely encourages you to get honest with yourself and with your partner. To move forward is to communicate and speak your truth.

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Valentine February 6, 2019 0 Comments

How Does Hotwifing Enhance a Relationship?

At first glance, it would seem ‘obvious’ that hotwifing or cuckolding — where a woman has sex with men other than her husband, but with her husband’s knowledge, consent and often at his urging — would be disastrous for any marriage, no matter how strong.

After all, there probably isn’t a single one of us who hasn’t experienced the damage infidelity can do, either first hand or to the relationships of friends and family.

But that analysis misses the crucial difference: hotwifing and cuckolding is not the same as infidelity because the husband knows about it and approves.

And that’s the difference that makes all the difference in the world.

The reasons men are so often drawn to encouraging their wives to become hotwives is complex, but it really boils down to biology and the way they’re made. In other words, they don’t choose their fantasy: their DNA chooses it for them.

And it’s this factor most women miss when their man asks them to indulge them in the fantasy.

Which is a shame, because if couples approach it in the right way, then hotwiving can dramatically improve and enhance a marriage.

Here are three reasons why this is:

1. Better Communication.

Most couples don’t communicate, not at any deep or meaningful level. But one of the fundamentals of successful hotwiving is talking to each other.

Not only do you need to establish the ‘ground rules’, but for most men it’s imperative their wives share the explicit details of their extra-marital sexual encounters.

By sticking to these very important rules, it vitally forces couples to communicate more effectively about other things, too. This can only be good for a relationship.

2. Better Sex for Her.

Let’s face it, one of the problems with every relationship is sex tends to get boring and routine. We all feel it… but no one wants to talk about it. It’s the elephant in the room.

But hotwiving can change all that. Because the wife is having sex with new or infrequent partners, and biology dictates that’s going to be hot, exciting and adventurous sex. And the ‘naughtiness’ of the whole situation only adds to the heat, especially if the man is present or listening from the next room.

3. Better Sex for Him

Many women worry when their men bring up the subject of hotwiving that the man is simply doing it as a roundabout way to getting ‘permission’ to sleep with other women.

While I suppose this might be true occasionally, the reality is the reason is nothing of the sort (one of the perennial complaints of women who go to “swingers’ parties” with their men is it can be hard for them to get a partner — because so many of the men really just want to watch their wives having sex with other men. This is why the often invite single men to these parties — so the husbands have something to watch!).

No, the men get a real thrill out of seeing or hearing their wives “perform” and when they get them back into their own bed, they can’t wait to make love to them — and the sex is explosive, because she will often talk dirty to him about her new lover as he’s making love to her.

So everyone wins, so long as they inform themselves first so they can avoid the pitfalls.

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Valentine February 6, 2019 0 Comments

I Miss You the Most

I miss you the most at night,

when everything is quiet

and silence reminds me that

I am not sleeping next to you.

 

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How To Find Women in Dubai/UAE

Dubai is a modern city of charm and beauty in it. It is a financial capital of UAE. It is full of tall buildings including the world largest tallest building Burj e Arab. Dubai is known as a city of migrants. According to one report almost 80% of the population belong to immigrant community. The immigrants mainly belong to South Asia, Far East, Europe and Middle East.

Dubai is a hot destination for women. You will find many women from Russia, India, Middle East, Philippine and Singapore. These women go there in search of their fortune. I will give you some tips where to find women in Dubai.

Posh Night Clubs in Dubai

There are many night clubs in Dubai. Some of them are standard and some of them are posh. If you go to posh night clubs you will find many women from Europe over there as mainly women from Europe and US in Dubai have got good jobs. Posh clubs are hot destination for women from US, Canada, Australia and Europe in Dubai They go to clubs regularly. Most European women in Dubai are single. You can try your luck in these clubs to find Western women in Dubai.

Standard Night Clubs in Dubai

There are many standard night clubs in Dubai. The entry fee is under 50 Dirham. These clubs are picked with women from Singapore, Philippine and China. If you are searching for Filipino, Singaporean and Chinese women in Dubai, then go to these clubs. They are there to make money and find men. You can always offer to buy drinks for these women and make friendship with them. Once you are friend with any one of them, you are in good hands.

Hotels Bars in Dubai

Hotel bars is another good place to go and find woman in Dubai. Most women in these bars are dancers from India and Pakistan. They perform dances on the floor and the crowd shower cards on them to show how much money they have. These cards are available for money. If you fancy Pakistani and Indian women in Dubai then go to these bars, you will find many South Asian women there. These girls are there to make fortune, so after dancing in bars, they will usually try to find man to spend time with them for some money. So if you fancy Indian and Pakistani girls, go to these bars and try your luck.

Dating Sites in Dubai

If you don’t have much time to spend or if you prefer to find woman on line in Dubai, then the best step is to register yourself in one of the local dating sites. There are some very good dating sites in Dubai. Register yourself there and try your luck. The membership fee is always minimal such as $15 for a month or so on. Don’t get expensive membership.

Remember it’s easy to find woman in Dubai. You will need to work out what kind of woman you are looking. Good luck in your search for woman in Dubai.

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Valentine February 6, 2019 1 Comment