Just think of all the possibilities that sending a dirty text offers you.
Not only can you take your time and send a message that you’ve thought about, worked hard at and have fine tuned to be the height of intoxication for your lover, you can also send them a message at anytime.
Long gone are the days of accidentally interrupting them during a meeting and having your hot and erotic dirty talk cut short by a hesitant “Listen, can I call you back darling, I’m in the middle of something with the Finance Director!”.
Eeek! Hope they weren’t on hands free.
Now they can receive your salacious thoughts at anytime, read them discreetly and get hugely turned on – all whilst still attending a meeting with the Finance Director!
So what’s the best kind of dirty text messages to send them?
Something that makes them think, that introduces an element of tease and denial.
You have here a golden opportunity to give your lover some serious teasing. Mild, sensual and erotic texts that discuss what you want them to do to you or you to them, gradually building up over a series of 4 or 5 texts that they receive during the course of the day will leaving them panting with desire, watching the clock tick down to home time.
Blatant texts, although hugely enjoyable to receive don’t last as long or have anywhere near the tease factor that gentle, mildly erotic texts do.
Break them in gently – start by sending them a simple message that says something along the lines of “Really miss you baby, thinking about you and being able to kiss and cuddle you” is nice, gentle and starts the ball rolling slowly.
You can then start to build up the lust factor by encouraging their participation.
“If you were here now, what would you like us to do?”
Hopefully, he’ll come back with something along the lines describing what he wants to do to you exactly.
Follow his lead, take his suggestions and enlarge them. Use your knowledge of you and him together, the things you like to do and how you like to do them and text that back to him.
Remember, build it all up slowly – don’t go sending him a first message that basically tells him to come home and grab you!
You need to time your messaging so that he can get more and more worked up, culminating in you sending a text just before he is due to leave work that extols him to come home and ravish you! If you are at work too, send him a final text that dares him to get home before you and prepare the bed or sofa or whatever you intend to use!
Use your dirty text messages as a slow burn method of talking dirty, not a quick bang and you should reap the same by return!!